© jb katke
Not so fast. May 21st is special to me. Until I told her, my granddaughter, Liz, had no idea.
Long ago, in a faraway place, my fiancé and I set the above date to be married. Only, with further thought, we decided we didn’t want to wait that long. We upped it to January.
We decided to get married at Greenfield Village, in the Martha Mary chapel Henry Ford had built for his mother. We were informed all of January was already booked. We settled for a December wedding, which at the time was perfectly acceptable because it was sooner yet.
Alas! May 21st has remained in my heart all these years. It’s beyond explanation and irrational; I have no regret over the man I married. After all, we are talking a date, for goodness sake.
The year of COVID-19 we celebrated our fiftieth wedding anniversary. Thankfully for us, life went on. I am aware that was not the case for everyone. With the restrictions set world-wide, our celebration has been detained.
With that in mind, I decided to ask Liz, to take some pictures of us in June. She has a budding business in photography and that would be fifty and a half years.
We learned of a May wedding for her extended family requesting she take a few pictures. Coming from Nebraska, we had the opportunity for her to pull an overnight at our house. With her camera.
Pictures were taken of my husband and I…on May 21st! Snapping away Liz was concerned about the lack of good lighting. Nevertheless, we did a bunch of poses and comical shots,
Later, an upset Liz confirmed the pictures didn’t come out as we hoped. She didn’t know the full story. Fifty years ago, my folks hired a friend employed at a camera shop to take our wedding pictures. It wasn’t until the day after he realized there was no film in the camera. It only seems right that this unfortunate occurrence happened again.
Best laid plans don’t always come to be, Our photo shoot was unplanned, just a fun and convenient opportunity. A coincidence? Not in my world. I don’t believe in it. Nothing under the sun just ‘happens.’ It’s all part of a plan, a divine one. We will have other opportunities, when the light is better.
My telling you this saga has an ulterior motive. I wish for you to know Jesus and what life can look like with his friendship. I’m not saying it will always be a bed of roses, but he never disappoints and he gives endless opportunities. His friendship makes the difficult things bearable. And sometimes, really good perks like an unexpected overnighter comes along.